How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 30.06.2025 00:57
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Procrastinates a lot.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
What was your worst experience while living with roommates?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Xbox sale round-up June 17, 2025 - TrueAchievements
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Jack Betts, ‘Spider-Man’ Actor and Spaghetti Western Veteran, Dies at 96 - Variety
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Scientists find 34-million-year-old snake that changes our understanding of evolution - Earth.com
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Moving sucks, but decluttering helps - The Verge
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Hangs out with loser friends.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Republicans, why do you support Kamala Harris over Donald Trump?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
That's it for today.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Threads is testing spoiler text, Zuckerberg says - TechCrunch
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
What are some effective strategies for getting more upvotes on Quora?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Does not procrastinate.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Ask yourself:
Were any US Generals hurt or killed yesterday in Damascus, Syria, yesterday 5/9/24?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Making more friends is a goal.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
What I need from you?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.